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My First Post

Hello! Welcome to my first entry on this blog. I have been interested in writing ever since I can remember, although I have not been writing as much lately. I don't have any type of interesting excuse. Basically, I have the same excuse that everyone has for not doing something that is meaningful to them - I've been busy. Perfectionism is also another reason for not putting words down on the computer screen. I don't think I am a terrible writer, but I am certainly not the best. I also struggle a bit with the fact that everything we do now is on the computer and everything is on display for everyone to criticize and analyze. If only I could bring myself to actually handwrite my "stories" in a personal journal. Not for anyone to see but me. Why can't I be at peace with doing just that? 

I have come to the conclusion that I just need to connect with people on a deeper level than we do in our everyday lives, and writing is a way for me to attempt to do that. People tend to judge others by their looks. If someone appears to have their shit together than they must! If someone looks disheveled, then their life must be a mess! We KNOW this is not true, yet somehow we still revert to this way of thinking. 

I also want to practice my writing skills WITHOUT using tools like Grammarly or AI. However, I still have a Grammarly subscription until the end of May 2025, so as I type this, Grammarly is highlighting with its little blue and red underlines all the wordy sentences, punctuation problems, etc. ( I need to get rid of that extension from my desktop!) I find it pretty annoying, because it takes my feelings away from my writing and makes me want to correct everything as I go along! My goal is to proofread at the end of each entry and use my actual brain to make corrections and, more than likely, leave some imperfections.

That's all for now! 

I promise I will be back. 

My goal for this blog is to write from my heart and make friends. Real-life friends with whom I may connect through my words. 

Wishing you a stress-free day filled with small happy discoveries along the way. 

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